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No one likes pain. We all turn from it. We run to avoid it. We anesthetize it with drugs and we drink it away – not always the best choice. But if we ran toward it, lived with it and experienced it, the pain could begin to heal. All our avoidance perpetuates the pain.

Divorce is painful. You’ve felt that one. Don’t like it; don’t want it. Oh no! I’m stuck with it. Well, you could face it like a mature adult and see what kinds of realistic work-a-rounds you can come up with to learn the lesson and stop the pain.

Many negative emotions come up over divorce: shame, blame, guilt, embarrassment, fear. (Read the full post about ‘Divorce Hurts. Individual Responsibility Heals.’…)